Starting a gratitude list can be a really helpful habit to get into. It helps you reflect on what you’re thankful for, and can give you a valuable resource to look back over when you’re feeling lost or overwhelmed.
A gratitude list or daily gratitude journal can also be a great way to support your other self care efforts, and help your wellbeing and mental health. Plus, it’s a lovely way to introduce some quiet time to the busyness of our everyday routines.
Let’s take a look at gratitude lists in more detail. What are they? Why are they worth writing? And what should we write down, anyway?
What is a gratitude list?
A gratitude list is a place to note down all the things you’re grateful or thankful for. Think of it as a running list of thankfulness that you can look back over and feel uplifted, inspired, and grateful.
You could write a short gratitude list daily, weekly, monthly or whenever inspiration strikes. It’s totally up to you. You could also stack it with other habits and self care ideas as part of a morning routine or self care menu – like writing a list of things to do, or planning your day.
Some people like to expand on their gratitude list and write in a gratitude journal instead. Here you can expand on your short list and attitude of gratitude even further, and express gratitude in more depth. Gratitude journals often have prompts to help you think about what to write.
What are the benefits of gratitude lists or journals?
It seems like an obvious choice that we should want to practice gratitude, and many of us do through our everyday actions and messages with others. If you want to take it a step further, there are lots of great reasons to start a gratitude list or journal.
Here are a few of my favorite reasons to start a gratitude journal or list:
- Help you focus in on the positives
- Remind you of what you’ve achieved and experienced
- Give you another tool to help you develop a positive mindset
- Create healthy habits around gratitude and giving
- Encourage positive emotions at the start/end of your day
- Make you feel a sense of relief or comfort at writing things down
- Give you a sense of and desire to pursue personal growth
You might find other benefits of writing a gratitude list or starting a gratitude journal. For example, you might find it calming or that it helps you to focus. It could also help you realise what you value most, and lead to a lightbulb moment about your career, relationships, or goals.
What do you need to get started?
The great thing about gratitude lists is that you don’t need anything complicated to get started. All you need is somewhere to keep your notes and something to take them with.
Here are a few different ways you could record your gratitude list:
- Pen and paper – in a notebook, or using a gratitude journal printable
- On your phone – using a notes app or Google Docs
- On your computer – using a document or online tool like Notion
It helps to keep your gratitude list separate from other lists and notes. That way you can easily flick back through them when you want to. A gratitude list can be the perfect excuse to start a fresh notebook.
Gratitude list tips and tricks
Starting anything new can feel overwhelming. It’s even more so when you’re not used to writing down all the positive things that have happened, or the things that you’re thankful for. To help you figure things out faster, here are some great gratitude list tips and tricks.
Make it a regular habit
Add your gratitude list into one of your routines on a daily basis to help it stick faster. Do it as soon as you get up, or as part of a wind down evening routine. If weekly is more your thing, a Sunday can work great as you plan for the week ahead.
Turn your gratitude exercise into a self care activity
Treat yourself to a new notebook and pen, or download a new app to help you stay focused. Settle down with a glass of clean water or a cup of tea, and take five minutes or so to write things down. If you’re stuck on what to write, try starting with a gratitude affirmation.
Keep it simple
Don’t put pressure on yourself to write paragraphs. Keep it simple if you prefer, and write just a few words or use bullet points. Other times you might find the words just keep flowing, so don’t set limits or be strict on yourself. Like any habit or hobby, you’ll have good days and hard times, so keep things easy.
Hold your lists in one place
Keep everything in one place so it’s really easy to look back on what you’ve felt grateful for. A bullet journal or simple notebook works great, or you could pick up a gratitude journal from a local store or Amazon. This can be a great way to feel better if you’re having a challenging moment.
Expand your writing habit
If you enjoy writing a gratitude list, think about expanding your writing habit further. Start writing a gratitude journal, or try writing freely about whatever comes to mind. You could also consider writing a more traditional journal, or turning to blogging or freelance writing.
Journal prompts for your gratitude list
Not sure what to write on your gratitude list? You’re definitely not alone! Here are some writing prompts to help you out.
You could try writing about…
- People you’re grateful to know
- Possessions you’re grateful to have
- Feelings you’re grateful to experience
- Memories you’re grateful for
- Experiences and opportunities you’re thankful for
- Friends, best friends, and loved ones you’re grateful for
- Small things you’re grateful for that make daily life easier
- Skills you’re grateful for
- Challenges you’re thankful you’ve succeeded at
These are just ideas to get you started. You could choose a different category each day, or be guided by whatever feels right for you.
100 things to be grateful for
Starting and maintaining a gratitude practice is easier when you have some ideas to get started with. If you’re looking for inspiration on things to be grateful for, here are some lovely ideas.
- Beautiful sunrises
- Your favorite music
- Falling in love
- Friends made via social media
- Comfy clothes
- Your favorite coffee shop
- Coping with the big things in life
- A supportive family member or friend
- Your cell phone
- A nice hot shower
- Being celebrated for your hard work
- Kind strangers
- Life-changing moments
- Valuable mentors
- The changing of the seasons
- Freshly baked cookies
- The little things that make you happy
- Catching up with an old friend
- Celebrating the new year
- Rainbows
- Getting through a tough time
- Deep breaths
- Getting some fresh air
- Deep conversations with friends
- A good night’s sleep
- Your favorite perfume
- Being alone
- People that love you
- Doing well at school or work
- Beautiful art
- Science and technology
- A calming massage
- Going to the gym
- Beautiful scenery
- Friendly neighbors
- Farmers markets
- Bullet journals
- Laughing like you can’t stop
- Your favorite movie
- Sleeping in on a Sunday
- Heartfelt apologies
- Watching the night sky
- Visiting a new city
- Cake
- Celebrating someone’s love story
- Reaching a milestone
- Love and support
- Fresh laundry
- Being by the sea
- Going to a theme park
- Decorating your home
- Cozy pajamas
- Working from home
- Feeling safe and secure
- Getting to know someone new
- The smell of rain
- Playing in the snow
- Thoughtful gifts
- Writing snail mail letters
- Your favorite scented candle
- Big adventures
- Reconnecting with old friends
- Checking something off your bucket list
- A smile
- Picnics in the park
- Staying up late
- Prioritizing your health and wellbeing
- Falling leaves
- Thank you messages
- Freedom over your own schedule
- Setting boundaries
- Baking
- Dancing with friends
- Learning a new skill
- Meditation
- Taking a pottery class
- Discovering something new
- Writing in a new journal
- Sipping on fresh coffee
- Buying new stationery
- Your favorite lunch
- Upgrading your tech
- Peace and happiness
- Giving an amazing gift
- Nurturing a friendship or relationship
- Finishing your to-do list
- Starting your own business
- The morning sun
- Decorating the Christmas tree
- Adding to your favorite collection
- Upbeat playlists
- Getting a new personal best
- Winning an award
- Tidying your home
- Visiting a new city
- Pancakes
- Going on vacation
- Snuggling a pet
- Decorating your space
- Pizza
Start your own gratitude list today
Ready to get reflective? Pick up a pen and paper or open up your notes app and start writing down what you’re grateful for. It doesn’t have to be a long list, but just getting started really helps and it can make such a positive impact on your day, week, and year.
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